اقرأ وتدبر الآية 5280 من سورة سُورَةُ القَلَمِ: وَدُّوا لَوْ تُدْهِنُ فَيُدْهِنُونَ
وَدُّوا لَوْ تُدْهِنُ فَيُدْهِنُونَ
they would like thee to be soft [with them], so that they might be soft [with thee].